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Supporting Yourself as a Carer: The Importance of Self-Care When Caring for Clients with Dementia



As we conclude our four-part series in honour of Alzheimer's Awareness Month, we turn our attention to a vital aspect of care: the well-being of those who give it. At the heart of the FeelCare approach is not only ensuring that clients with dementia receive compassionate and effective care but also recognising the immense importance of carers taking care of themselves.



Caring for someone with dementia is rewarding, yet it comes with emotional, physical, and mental challenges that can be overwhelming. Burnout, stress, and emotional fatigue are common realities for carers, which is why it's crucial to acknowledge your own needs and prioritise self-care. Supporting yourself is not only beneficial for your health—it enables you to provide better care for your clients.



FeelCare Recap: Focus on the Carer



Our FeelCare care model, designed to guide professional and personal dementia care, reminds us of the core principles that create a compassionate and supportive environment. The model emphasises Familiarity, Empathy, Engagement, Love, Consistency, Attentiveness, Respect, and Endurance. However, it's not just for clients—the model applies to carers as well.



This final blog will explore how you, as a carer, can implement FeelCare principles to look after your own well-being.



1. Familiarity with Your Own Needs



Just as familiarity is key in understanding clients with dementia, knowing your own limits, triggers, and needs is critical. Regularly checking in with yourself is essential—whether it's noticing signs of fatigue, emotional stress, or feelings of overwhelm. Acknowledge that caring can be draining and that it's okay to set boundaries. Familiarity with your needs allows you to manage stress before it escalates, helping you avoid burnout.



Action Step:


Develop a self-care routine that includes moments for reflection. Take time each day to assess how you're feeling physically, mentally, and emotionally.



2. Empathy for Yourself



Carers are often deeply empathetic towards those they care for, but they can forget to extend that empathy inward. It’s important to practice self-compassion, recognising that caring is tough work and that you're doing your best. Perfection is impossible, and mistakes are part of the process.



Action Step:


Replace self-criticism with self-kindness. Treat yourself with the same empathy you show your clients. Remind yourself that it's okay to have difficult days, and you're not alone in the challenges you face.



3. Engagement with Support Networks



One of the most crucial components of a carer’s wellbeing is the strength of their support system. Engaging with others who understand your challenges—whether it's colleagues, family members, or support groups—can provide emotional relief and practical advice. Sometimes, a simple conversation with someone who "gets it" can lift a significant weight off your shoulders.



Action Step:


Join a carers’ support group, either locally or online, to share experiences, seek advice, and gain encouragement. Lean on your network when you need breaks or emotional support.


4. Love for What You Do, But Also for Yourself



Carers often pour love into their work, building strong emotional connections with their clients. But this same dedication can lead to burnout if your own needs are neglected. While it's essential to care for clients with love and devotion, it's equally important to love yourself enough to rest and recharge.



Action Step:


Plan regular "me-time" activities—whether it's a hobby, exercise, or simply a moment of solitude. Self-love in the form of personal time can refresh you, making it easier to continue caring with passion.



5. Consistency in Self-Care Practices



Consistency is crucial in dementia care, providing stability for clients. Similarly, self-care isn't a one-time effort—it must be consistent and ongoing to be effective. Building self-care habits into your daily routine ensures that you can maintain your mental and physical health over time, rather than waiting until you're on the verge of burnout to take action.



Action Step:


Schedule regular self-care practices just as you would work shifts or client appointments. Whether it's taking time to meditate, going for a walk, or simply relaxing, make it a non-negotiable part of your week.



6. Attentiveness to Signs of Burnout



Attentiveness in caregiving means being observant of a client’s needs, behaviours, and triggers. But what about your own? Recognising the early signs of burnout—such as irritability, fatigue, or detachment—is crucial for preventing long-term harm to your well-being. By being attentive to your own mental health, you can address issues before they spiral.



Action Step:


Create a list of burnout warning signs and place it somewhere visible. This will serve as a reminder to regularly check in with yourself and take action when needed.



7. Respect for Boundaries



Respect is central in dementia care, but it’s equally important to respect your own boundaries. Being a carer doesn’t mean you have to be available 24/7 or sacrifice your personal life. It's okay to say no, delegate tasks, or ask for help when you need it. By setting clear boundaries, you're not only protecting your own wellbeing but also ensuring that you can provide quality care when you’re at your best.



Action Step:


Communicate your boundaries clearly with colleagues, supervisors, or family members. If you're feeling overwhelmed, don't hesitate to ask for support or request time off.



8. Endurance Through Rest and Renewal



Endurance in caregiving is built on the ability to rest and renew. Just as clients need regular rest periods, so do you. Pushing through without giving yourself time to recover will only lead to fatigue. Finding balance between work and rest is the key to long-term endurance.



Action Step:


Schedule breaks throughout your workday, even if they are short moments to breathe or stretch. Additionally, plan for longer periods of rest, such as weekends or holidays, to allow for full renewal.



Final Thoughts: You Matter Too



In the caregiving world, it's easy to prioritize others to the point where your own needs fall by the wayside. However, the truth is that a healthy, well-cared-for carer is a better carer. By following the FeelCare principles in your own life—familiarity with your needs, empathy for yourself, consistent self-care, and attentiveness to your wellbeing—you can ensure that you are equipped to provide the compassionate, high-quality care your clients deserve.



Remember, the journey of caregiving is a marathon, not a sprint. Prioritising your health and happiness ensures that you have the endurance to continue providing the love, patience, and support that your clients with dementia need. As we close this series on Alzheimer's Awareness Month, let this be a reminder: the care you give to others is important, but the care you give to yourself is just as crucial.

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